Do I?

sometimes i wonder.. why we need to change just to make the one that we love accept us.. why can't the person that we loved accept us the way we are? is it because the one that we loved actually didn't love us? or is it because we are trying to hard to be accepted? why must we suffer? i should be man enough to be who i want to be and no need to be who she wants me to be. is that a right thing to do? it's a tough choice to make when u didn't know what she's thinking about. do i really have the chance?